Dear boys,
Our summer came to an abrupt end this morning. After weeks of sun and friends and freedom, you face weeks of structure, work and responsibility. As I tasked you in organizing your backpacks, charging your iPad, packing your lunch and finding a book- I realized how much we have grown. Obviously you have physically grown, but the maturity that is emerging is astonishing to me. You are becoming self-sufficient young men in front of my eyes. I have learned to literally “chill out” and continually try to NOT sweat the small stuff. (I didn’t even make Henry change his stained t-shirt this morning. I’m showing great progress.)
When I think about what I want for you this year, my list is simple. I want you to be yourselves. That’s it. I feel like the rest of the stuff is working itself out. You are learning to be trustworthy. You are both reasonably kind people. For the most part, people enjoy your company. You occasionally eat a vegetable. I love you for the unique beings you are. Keep on being weird, stubborn, caring, fiery, funny and unpredictable. My promise is to guide you and not try and change you. I’ll support you in your passions-even if I don’t get it. Your dad and I are lucky to be on this ride with you. Although we may annoy you, we are your biggest fans. Always.
As you charge into 5th and 8th grade, try to keep it together. If you fall flat on your face, I will help you pick up your yard sale. And I will also do your laundry every once in awhile.
Have a great day 2. Love, Mom
Tags: life with boys
That was absolutely beautiful Denise. Tears in my eyes. Lovely.
Good momming!
Love,
Pie
I have to say . . . made me a little misty!