Big W had a Little League baseball game last night. I could tell he was going to have a great game when he struck out swinging during his first at-bat. And I was right! Two more turns at the plate brought swings, foul tips, and a throw out at first. He gave a top-notch effort and had his best game of the season. I know you are probably wondering if I am being serious, right? I am 100% serious and seriously proud!
While I cheered wildly for his strike out, many parents looked over their shoulders-wondering if I had lost my mind. You see, W has probably been up to bat fifteen times this season and had not swung the bat once. Not once. {This is actually a carry over from last season as well.} Only he knows why. But last night he stepped up to the plate and swung at the first pitch.
What have I learned? Be patient with your kids. They are not on all on the same trajectory. It is difficult to watch your child struggle. But, struggle teaches resiliency. Be a great team parent. Get to know the kids on your child’s team. Scream madly when the kid that never gets a hit, suddenly ends up on first. Tell those babies that you love to watch them play. Cheer on every success, even if that success is a strike out! Find the lessons in the game outside of being an all-star. Encourage them to grow as person and as a teammate. Tell them to have fun and be great.
I can’t wait to watch him play next. Who knows, he may even get a hit!
Tags: life with boys
YAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY!!!!! Well done!!!!!!! Amen!!!!!!!
They all seriously thought I had lost my mind! When W turned to walk back to the dug out, he had a huge smile on his face.
xo-denise
Great news. I am so sorry I missed it. Once Will gets the feel of swinging the bat, he is going to connect. After he starts swinging, he can swing HARD. I can remember swinging so hard at a ball, I fell down. It is space, body awareness. Hitting the ball is learning a new foreign language. One word or phrase at a time.
Go Will!!!
Way to take a swing Will! Beautifully stated Denise. You are such a good, loving, patient and graceful mamma! Your boys are lucky.
Thanks Jill! On a good day I am all of those things. And then there are other days. But I am learning to be patient with myself and understand that life is a series of near misses. xo-denise
You are a great mom!
Trying my best. xo-denise